What kind of meaning does the collar in SM give?

The collars we recognize in life evolved from the collars used by dogs. So the collar itself represents the relationship between the dog and the owner's pet.

In the BDSM game, the collar is a prop that gives the obedient a sense of humiliation and a sense of being dominated.

Therefore, when it is used as a BDSM prop, it has the same meaning, making the obedient become the "pet" of the ruler.

In addition to the obedient wearing it unilaterally, there is also a situation where the dominator also wears it at the same time.

In the SM relationship, it is a symbol of power and a mutual commitment to those who are endowed with a little bit of rights and interests.

The important role played by the collar in the SM relationship is no less than the submachine gun used to attack the enemy on the battlefield. Its importance lies not in its actual function, but in its status symbol.

For a group of people who incorporate BDSM relationships into their lives, they believe that collars can even represent something more important than marriage.

For this type of people, it is extremely important to have a deep communication when planning to put a collar on their partner. It is extremely important to have a deep discussion about what this collar symbolizes for each person.

In fact, such things often happen in SM relationships, that is, the trainer thinks that the collar symbolizes that all rights are in their own hands, and requires the wearer to obey absolutely.

Conformists see it as a coveted status symbol, or, like the shoulder straps on a trench coat, as an ornament.

It is not surprising that such a thing occurs. Generally, the person who gave the collar did not understand the meaning of wearing the collar with the person who was given the collar.

Our understanding of the term collar is stereotyped as a black ring-shaped item with a clip. Some people may decorate it, such as a bell or rhinestone metal rivets and other accessories to increase the style and win the public's aesthetics. Easy to sell.

In reality, the "collar" used by SM can be anything, it may be a strip of cloth torn from the clothes and tied around the neck, or it may be an ornament hanging on the belt, or even a gold or Silver chain with pendant.

Every item has a different meaning in the eyes of different people in the SM relationship. The collar not only represents the appearance of the item, but also gives something emotional.

It represents the recognition of S to M and the commitment between partners, and the value and emotion it carries are perceived by the wearer.

The premise is that the consent of the individual should be obtained. For the person who gave the collar, the collar should not be removed under any circumstances.

For others, the collar is only worn in the bedroom or during BDSM activities, Daluse believes that this is different from person to person.

Before the "collar" is put on the neck, what can be done, what can't be done, and the bottom line of each other must be communicated with each other. You can't just do whatever you want.

The "collar" itself is closed, because it has been brought into the field of the world of meanings and has been connected with people, so there will be many meanings.

It can also be used as a symbol of rights between the conqueror and the conquered, and also as a bond of the same mind.

Its implication puts a veil of mystery on it, and people can't help falling in love with it, and it has become a work of art that often appears in front of the public in the relationship between SM.