What is an orgasm? Why is it harder for women to reach orgasm?

Now, when Daluse talks about sex life, most people don't feel shy, because with the development of the times, this is a normal need. Therefore, everyone needs to view it correctly. A good sex life can bring happiness to both parties and promote emotional stability.

And when having sex, both parties need to pay attention to some things, such as not having sex after drinking, when tired, or during menstruation, otherwise private parts infection will easily occur. And when having sex, orgasm will occur as expected, so why does this happen?

Female orgasm:

Female orgasm usually occurs during sexual intercourse, when the sexual organs rub against each other to stimulate the vagina, causing the frequency of vaginal contractions to increase, producing an obvious sense of excitement. Even if there is no sexual intercourse, sexual stimulation, such as touching the nipples, armpits, vulva, clitoris and other parts, can cause women to reach orgasm and increase the frequency of vaginal contractions.

After women have orgasm, they usually have obvious discharge of vaginal secretions, accompanied by symptoms such as flushing, muscle spasms, and twitching. After the above situation occurs, women will gain physical and mental happiness and sexual satisfaction.

Male orgasm:

Simple and direct, the form of expression is trouble-free ejaculation! The reason why we emphasize barrier-free is because although boys with ejaculation disorders can also obtain strong sexual stimulation, it is difficult for them to reach orgasm through ejaculation.

In addition to the disease factor of ejaculation disorder, boys can easily reach orgasm. Because boys are sexually aroused faster, as long as the penis is stimulated, orgasm will occur.

1. Women’s sexual excitement is slower: It is directly different from men’s sexual excitement. Women need sufficient foreplay to assist sexual excitement. They can only feel pleasure after reaching a state of sexual excitement.

2. Not relaxing due to mental stress: If a woman has sexual intercourse in a state of inner tension, it will be difficult for her body to relax. In this case, let alone orgasm, you may even be torn and injured due to being too dry.

3. Insufficient technical level: Women’s excitement points and sensitive areas need to be explored and discovered with appropriate skills. If you just use force, you won't be able to trigger sexual excitement and you won't be able to reach orgasm.

Orgasm is a state of pleasure experienced by men and women after sexual stimulation. Male orgasm is manifested by ejaculation, which usually lasts from 3 to 10 seconds. After ejaculation, the genitals gradually weaken, marking the end of the male orgasm.

When a man orgasms, he will experience rapid heartbeat, rapid breathing, increased blood pressure, and ejaculation accompanied by whole-body convulsions.

Female orgasm usually has several physiological manifestations: the female clitoris swells and protrudes, and throbs with orgasm. A woman's vaginal sphincter contracts intermittently, vaginal secretions increase, and the woman's muscles become temporarily stiff.

"Orgasm disorder" refers to sexual stimulation of sufficient intensity to arouse sexual desire, but still delayed and unable to cause orgasm. It may persist or recur with one or more of the following symptoms, such as dyspareunia.

Significant vulvovaginal or pelvic pain during intercourse or attempted penetration, fear or anxiety due to vulvovaginal or pelvic pain before, during, or after penetration.

Orgasmic disorder causes psychological distress in women when it is difficult to achieve orgasm, the intensity of orgasm is reduced, or orgasm is delayed. Ending it too soon, not having enough foreplay, or fear of losing control of your orgasm too soon can all lead to orgasmic disorder.

Faced with this situation, it is necessary to understand the patient's views on sex, teach physiological and psychological health knowledge such as sexual anatomy, reduce sexual anxiety, and change their traditional sexual concepts, husband-wife relationship models, and past sexual habits.

Deepen the correct understanding of sexual life and affirm that sexual life is a joint participation of both husband and wife, rather than an activity that the man participates in or takes the place of the woman. Understand the views of patients with orgasmic disorder on sex, teach them physiological and psychological knowledge about sexual anatomy, and reduce sexual anxiety. If this situation is serious, it is recommended to go to the hospital for treatment.